“I don't know what I want anymore.”
The Honest Map. Score seven parts of your life honestly, circle the one you avoid, and make one move on it this week.
Book a free call →Carry It Well · Nine weeks for men who carry a lot
Nine things men say. What to do about each one.
Half a day alone to start, then one lesson a week: how your life actually stands, the nightly drift, the short fuse, the load, the work that owns you, the friends you lost track of, your father, and your kids. Every practice is shown at home and at work.
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It starts with The Solo
Half a day alone, before you change anything.
A trail, a river, or a bench with a long view. The phone stays in the truck. You bring a notebook and answer three questions, starting with the one most men have never written down.
“What am I tired of pretending is fine?”
The complete course
See it. Carry it. Build it.
Three parts, nine lessons, one practice each. Read one a week and try it in a real week before you move on.
01 · See itBe honest about where you are: your life, your evenings, your temper.
“I'm on my phone or a drink every night and I don't like it.”
The Drift. Seven nights of noticing what you reach for and why, then one better plan set up before 9 PM.
“I snap at the people I love most.”
Short Fuse. Learn your three warning signs, take sixty seconds, come back calm, and repair every time you miss.
02 · Carry itHandle the load: what is yours, how much is enough, and the body that carries it.
“Everything is on me.”
Choose Your Battles. Sort everything you carry into three columns, make two hand offs, and have the conversation you have been avoiding.
“Work owns me.”
Enough. Write three numbers, set one hard edge for thirty days, and tell the people it affects.
“I'm running on fumes.”
Fuel. Seven hours of sleep, real training, ten quiet minutes a day, heat if you have it, and one hard thing on the calendar.
03 · Build itBuild what lasts after you: your friends, what you inherited, and what you pass on.
“I don't have one friend I could call at 2 AM.”
Your Council. Name two or three men, invite one specifically, repeat it, and tell one true thing.
“I'm turning into my dad.”
The Inheritance. Write the playbook you inherited, mark each line keep, change or stop, and practice one new version out loud.
“My kids are growing up and I'm missing it.”
What You Pass On. Write your creed, plan one challenge with each kid, teach one real skill, and tell them who they are.
Everything, yours to keep
- The Solo: half a day alone with a notebook, and a sheet to take with you
- Nine full online lessons, each with a home example, a work example, and the research behind it
- A course book with two pages to write on after every lesson
- Ten printable sheets, for the wallet, the desk, the fridge, and the mirror
- The question I would ask you about each lesson on a coaching call
- The Focus Protocol, a three day phone reset, as a tool for the nights the phone wins
Men carrying a lot
- Married, single, divorced, or somewhere in between. Every lesson has an honest version if it does not fit your life.
- Owners, managers, tradesmen, salesmen, anyone whose phone is also his job.
- Men who want to change something without becoming a project.
Want someone walking through it with you?
The 90 Day Intensive is this course taken one lesson a week, with a call with me every week. The course is included.